How fair is conception?

actually human beings have children because we are biologically meant to do so, so we can continue to populate the world, in a lot of cases men are attracted to women that they think will "house" a baby well and women are attracted to men that they think are genetically "fit" to make a strong healthy baby. It is in out nature to procreate. but all parents make mistakes, and no there is no asking the baby simply because it does not exist. I always tell my son that he was a gift and he is my treasure, I do not ask him to be "thank full" to me because I gave birth to him, as many mothers, he is here because my husband and I made him, however we also have to lead by example and raise an upstanding human being so that he can also raise upstanding human beings, unfortunately some parents do not take this task seriously.